Ohh Crap. Dated for 15 months, moved in with me for the past 3 and now I found out that she had an affair for the past 7 weeks. She only saw the guy a couple of times but corresponded through email the rest of the time. As soon as I found out, I confronted her and lie after lie she finally broke down. I know people makes mistakes, I have done them myself. Everything that I thought she was is gone. She is a monster.
I already kick her out, she is packing, but is there a way to salvage anything? She is sorry and I know. She was my best friend, at least I thought so. So the betrayal is at two levels.
For those of you that have gone through this, how did you deal with it? If you decided to stay together, did it work? Where you able to overcome all those weird feelings?
Freaking women, can't leave with them, can't leave without them.