To the few self-serving, self-righteous busy-bodies that have no life of their own, and nothing but time on their hands to stick their noses into other people's business --
I am NOT starting up a DZ. I am not managing a DZ. I am not buying property to start-up a DZ. I have not obtained a mortgage to start up a DZ.
I guess one can not even purchase a place to live without it becoming the "talk of the town," or should I say fodder for a lawyer.
And since you don't have your own children's lives to try to screw up, I guess you have to find someone else's child's life to try to turn upside down.
And to set the record straight -- No one broke up my 34 year marriage, but if someone did, it wouldn't be your business anyway. To you, I say, get a life! Get laid, get something, but get out of my business!