Well let me start by saying that I'm not a skydiver, but I admire the skydiving family. When my son had his 1st major accident, his non-biological brothers and sisters (fellow skydivers) were there for him, and were probably the main reason for his recovery.
Just as in the military we are known as a band of brothers, the skydiving family is the same.
My heart and prayers go out to Paul's family. Words can not express the hurt that you must be feeling.
Know that me and my family's prayers are with you all.
God Bless
Matt's Dad