Regarding Russian DZs. Stupino is 100Km to the South from Moscow. Good highway, takes me 1 hour to get there from home. Kolomna is 120Km to the South-East, traffic sometimes jammy. You can post your appeal for transportation here http://www.dropzone.ru/guestbook.shtml, write in English - no problem, somebody will pick you up and get to DZ. People are friendly and it's normal practice. So, you can stay in Moscow 5star hotel, go to jump in the morning, jump the day, come back and go to the theatre in the night.
You are ALL wellcome!!!
Alex