Dan Poynter quoted some good figures in his book "The Skydiver's Handbook" (which I highly recommend if you're just starting out). He estimates 1 fatality for every 82,000 jumps, which equates to 1 for every 3,800 participants. These figures can be compared with 1 fatality for every 2,308 hang gliding flights and the 1 in every 2,582 Americans who die each year in all accidental deaths. He also gives some other fatality statistics. Approximately 30 skydivers die each year compared to 105 people who died while scuba diving, 856 bicycling, 7,000 drowned (365 in bath tubs), 1154 died of bee stings, 60 snowmobiling, 47 water skiing, and 300 died after being hit by lighting! Then of course there are highway fatalities which number upwards of 50,000. He's also got some interesting observations "why we jump." Psychologists used to classify risk takers as people who had some kind of Freudian death wish or who were practicing "fear displacement" or were acting out psychopathic fantasies in an attempt to make up for feelings of inadequacy or to demonstrate omnipotence (Of course! Now I understand why I do what I do!) But, he quotes a 1973 study conducted on 293 high-risk competitors, including skydivers. What they found was that risk takers tended to be success oriented, above average in abstract ability and intelligence and that they were rarely reckless. Instead their risk taking tended to be cool and calculated. The study author concluded that risk takers grow up in a "go for it" environment where they are coached to try new things. Meanwhile, their timid friends are being told "Don't do that - you could get hurt." Regardless, statistically skydiving is very safe if YOU are safe. Buy really crappy gear, never inspect it, and then do stupid things in the air and, naturally, your odds dramatically decrease (just as much as if you were a reckless vehicle driver). Most whuffos naturally view skydiving as dangerous and foolhardy simply because it involves performing a very unnatural act. Even babies are instinctively afraid of falling (even though they don't know why). Skydiving taps into a primal human fear. Couple that with the fact that we live in a society in which says "Don't do that - you might get hurt" and it's easy to understand the whuffo mentality. Bottom line is that skydiving is probably safer than some other things you do now if you're smart about it. If you want to skydive and you think the rewards are worth the risks, don't let fear stop you - your fear is instinctive and not based on objective criteria. Don't listen to the whuffos either - they're victims of their own ignorance. Your family and friends may be wary at first, but they can be convinced (there's a good thread somwhere on that topic). It's a personal decision, but just make sure you know what the real risks are.