JimmyD

I fixed it for you. Now is NOT the time to be honest. THEY DON'T CARE. But they will remember the negativity. They are thinking one of two things - A. Cool, don't have to lay him off or B. Drat, have to hire somebody now, that's going to take time. The purpose and ONLY purpose for a resignation letter is to help YOU. Since you have a job lined up, give as much notice as reasonably possible because it helps YOU (you're next employer will like it that you treated your last place well, because that is the best predictor of how you will be treating them in the future). My purpose for one has always been to give me an "in" with the place/people I am leaving. Leave as positive impression as possible. Work your ass off the last two weeks there. 02

there are quite a number of interesting ex-bouncers around ... including my Dentist who used to work at a strip club in Tijuana "back in the day" edit: oh yeah - don't forget THE POLE! Icky - disenfectant wipes ARE A MUST!

In the hopes that someday my ex will read this stuff, I have to say that she wasn't the type that needed to be treated badly. In fact, she holds 99.9% of all other strippers in disdain, and pisses off all the other girls in any place she dances at. It is an interesting thing to watch. She is such a bitch. I love her. (common knowledge, but I'll continue anyway.) What makes it hard to leave? The money. A decent Friday or Saturday night will bring in a grand each night, a very good one x 2. A weeknight maybe $20 maybe hundreds, all depends on the place and the night. Working at most any other job just doesn't seem to be worth the time. I think that I'd probably talk to her about doing it a year at a time. After a year re-asses the whole thing and what affect her stripping has had on your lives, and decide together (if possible) to continue or not. If you have the money for the house then maybe let it go, and she finishes up school. You have to really trust her to not cheat on you, and you also can't be the jealous type. For her part, no free lap dances should be given. Regular customers are okay though, they'll drop a lot of bucks. She won't have to bang the SCO to get a Friday or Saturday night, but she'll have to look the other way to drug usage. The bars have the experienced and/or good girls for Friday & Saturday nights, so she'll know how shes doing pretty soon if/when she gets those nights. Second hand smoke. Lots of it. Never count money out in the open, always in the back. Always always always, every time, she must be escorted to her car at closing (at night). Preferably your car so that when the plates get run by some schmuck your real name and address will come up not hers. Good luck.

That depends on the woman. Many women, to keep them, must to be treated like dirt. (Not saying that is the case at all for you agent.) Ignore them, cheat on them, whatever, they keep coming back for more. It makes them feel normal.Treat them well, they get bored and go to someone else who will fuck them in the ass and take their money. Did I screw them up? No, probably their moms and dads did. But what I say is true. As for what agent said, I think it is it very reasonable for either party in a relationship to give such an ultimatum. How about you? Would you want your boyfriend to strip in a gay bar? He'd make a whole lot of money, might even come home late once in a while. Wouldn't you give him an ultimatum someplace along the way??? Does that make him your property? (Yes I am assuming you like boys, and only used gay for the stereotype. My bad.)

Why I won't (usually) date strippers any more: Too much money for too little work. Makes them too fucking lazy away from the dance floor to do much. Plus when at the bar and not dancing, it is fkn boring. Does she smoke yet? She'll probably start. You're sex life may get fucked up too - she may want some time not simulating riding on someone. That time may be with you. Many strippers turn 35, and thiry-five yearold strippers are fkg pathetic. (Versus thirty-fie year-old moms with kids, some education, that take care of themselves - totally hot. Or, put another way, which would you rather come home to?). Not to mention the ease of getting drugs/meth/heroin in any club around. And yeah I'm pretty fkg pissed at the whole stripper thing. I visited one of my exs in jail a couple months ago - possesion of heroin/driving under the influence (many many counts). Shes out now, into the wind. Its not the heroin I'm worried about even, its the meth they often start using to feel better when the heroin doesn't work any more. Google "Faces of Meth" to see what that'll do to you. She was a totally hot at 19. I don't know if I'd let her stay with me or not now, my stuff would probably dissappear. Sounds like you're probably not going to have much say in the matter anyway. If I were in your shoes (and not looking to ditch her anyway) I'd challenge her to save money. If she can save half the cash she makes the first month, then half the first year, then I'd say that maybe she'll be an exception to my experiences. If her spending just raises to match the income, I'd be looking elsewhere for a relationship.

QuoteThe Church was running things and it didn't like its dogma challenged. Curiously enough, the same is true of the current Administration.Quote you talk like this is some evil saved for the church/religion, or bush. This behavior is at least cultural, if not human nature. Go look how much crap Bill Booth gets for introducing the Skyhook - THAT reminded me of the 'flat-worlders' killing the 'rounders' - cultures are very averse to new ideas. yes we do need a first amendment. but do not for a second believe that human nature has changed. And jail is not so bad if you are broke without a life. When you get out your life is still crap, but harder to do everything normal in society. I've not been but seem to know many in and out of jail now.

you act like things are not that way here, like it is different. Because it is criminal there, doesn't mene you will go to jail. Because it isn't criminal here doesn't mean you can say anything you want. Seventy years ago they killed a bunch of innocent people, their society did, now they overcompensate, at least on paper. One hundred and fifty + years ago we killed and enslaved a bunch of innocents here, our society did, now its bad for us to. Try saying the N-word out loud if you're not black and see how long you have a job. No jail, but you will pay. See? Not that different. Get off your high horse please. There is no slippery slope. Every culture has things for which you will pay a steep price when said. It is just that in our culture, there is no price needed to be paid for Bush sucks or Kerry blows. But there is a price for saying other things.

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look ma, I can cut and paste! Kan I gradeate from 8th grad?

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