I started diving before my boyfriend, well when he started jumping for ME it wasn't what he really wanted to do. I've got my A license and he didn't want to finish AFF. We are still together doing well, but Scuba is his love. I go for my check out dive next weekend so we have something to do together. I also got my motorcycle endorsement which he also likes to do. He better not tell me I can't jump!
If your still with this women maybe taking a break and doing something she wants to do will help you out.
NEVER date someone at your DZ! Never under estimate the power of THIS women!