I think that is what I would do, go to the dz when she's with her dad or if grandma is watching her.
Well, I will have life insurance to cover her financially in case a fatal accident occurs... eek... that would be really crappy. I would always be concerned about who could take care of her, since nobody can do it better than me HA!! but her father is around and grandmas, etc. And I do have a nest egg in case I got injured and couldn't work. Other than that I just plan on making conservative/responsible decisions once I go to get my own gear and not take big "chances" in the air.
I feel like I will be a better mom because I will be happier because I am doing something that I love. Does that make sense? And I know I won't be able to do it as much as I'd want and that's okay.