Well, I feel your pain, confustion, frustration! I was once hit on by my old facilites manager...it was incredibly awkward and ever since my vision of marriages have been tainted! It seems many of the married men I meet here at work are always complaining about being married, blah blah blah...next thing I know, they're having affairs. Pathetic!!!! And more SADQuote than anything...there is NO REASON to cheat!!!