I think what glideangle was trying to get across though was don't reach out for grips as this will cause a backslide. That was part of my problem when I first started, but I have that corrected. Now I fly to my slot, and keep flying there until my hands are right there at the grips. In other words I could grab the grips or not and my body will still be in the same position. My earlier post about "using the grips to hold on instead of truly flying my slot" referred to that. My instructor had me do some drills were we did some formations where we were turning points, but without actually taking grips. That really helped me get it, and learn how to fly my slot instead of being the idiot just hanging on for dear life lol.
You know I have mainly been doing RW with jumpers that are way more advanced than me. It has been humbling, to say the least, to see how much better they are than me. I thought man I suck. I just got my Coach rating and did my first coach jump with a student that had 11 jumps. It was funny to see how much better I was than him. Kinda put it into perspective ya know.
All of your tips are appreciated. Thanks.